Posts Tagged ‘traveling with children’

Friends Working Together

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011

Isn't it great having friends? 

What would we do without them? 

But have you ever worked with friends – on a regular basis? 

There are many opinions about this, some are pro and some are con. 

Most of us have various circles of friends.  

  • We have our family which can also be considered as the first or the inner friend circle 
  • Then there friends from the neighborhood
  • Friends from work 
  • Friends from school 
  • Friends who we know through our children 
  • and of course we can't forget our virtual friends. 

Can working with friends improve productivity in the office or business environment?  Most studies say "yes" 

Here are a few questions that you should ask each other before committing to working together:

  • How will you react to suddenly being together all the time?
  • How will your roles change?
  • Who will be "in charge?"
  • How will you resolve conflict?
  • Will you be able to separate your personal and business relationships?

I have friends who have been working together for years, successfully, they are also husband and wife and parents to two beautiful children. 

Jill and Amnon are two very talented dancers who travel around the world performing

together "Two Worlds"

Friends working together

I asked Jill what is the best about working with your best friend who is also your husband, this is what she said: 

"We get to be together, creating new art everyday together.  We have no trust issues, we both have learned to listen to each others ideas, accept them or not, but always discussing them, and respecting each others opinions.   It is convenient to work with Amnon, we have the same working schedule! It was great when the kids were younger – we just packed them up and took them with us."  "Because we travel all over the world we also enjoy experiencing new places together – that is wonderful, Amnon see's things that I don't and I hear things that he doesn't, sharing this is fascinating."

I asked Jill what she thinks what there key to success is  and her biggest tip she would give to others who are contemplating working together:

Learn to listen to each other! Learn to bend – it is reciprocal!

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Are whales similar to friends?

Wednesday, August 4th, 2010

How Many Whales can you see while Whale Watching in Cape Cod?

I think we hit the jackpot yesterday,  we saw off the coast of Cape Cod at least 20 Whales and many with their calf's.


Whales!

We decided to go at the last minute because we heard the water would be calm which would make a HUGE difference in terms of the sea sickness. Unfortunately, my older sister and her family did not join us.



Whales…..

More whales…..

Tails….

For me, not only was seeing those incredible animals up close and doing their thing,

  • like feeding,
  • flipping their tails on the water to get more fish up,
  • diving  
  • waving at us with their fins

.. but the interactions between the cousins was just as exciting.
Cousins...Best of Friends

They are cousins…… they are friends!

Jill Raff
Jilly and Mama 

 

Each of Jill's youngsters checked out my sons braces.  They had fun discovering any type of food that was available on the boat (I guess seeing the whales eat made them very hungry.)


 

It was an hour ride out to where the whales are, and an hour back.  

Why is it the way back is Always Longer??

That was a great time to just relax, catch up with each other and see how the kids entertained themselves. ,

"The journey is as important as the arrival"  

In this case,  the arrival of seeing so many Whales all over the place, searching for the blows so we could go and see a different group of whales, was more exciting than our journey,  but I loved the journey as well.

You are on the boat, no where to go, the sun is shining, the wind in your face, and you just have to relax and enjoy the free time and togetherness.

There are some people that miss out on amazing moments because they focus on what you might be doing,  like riding in a car, or 4 hours on a boat.  

 

I always say, it really doesn't matter what we are doing, as long we are doing it together!  

 

Together,  Together… life is sweet,  especially when there are some whales in the middle!!

Happy Whale Watching!!

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