Posts Tagged ‘old friends’

Family Reunions

Friday, July 9th, 2010

 

Here is our first Guest Blog ! 

This is what Lauren Steinman Watral has to say about herself

First and foremost I am a wife and mother of 3 girls. Professionally, I created and developed a geriatric care management business to pursue my dream of a private practice. I am owner and founder of Raleigh Geriatric Care Management, LLC established in January of '09.
 
Four months ago I received an unsuspecting email from a long lost cousin who had attended the funeral of my uncle in Yonkers, NY. While there, he expressed to attendees that perhaps it was time for a family reunion.
 
After all, our family had never had one.   

The theme, he pondered, would be to celebrate the 100th anniversary of the Novogrodski family arriving in the United States. 

 

Thus, a birth of a reunion.  

 
Emails started flying around the country and the world to include California, Washington, New York , North Carolina, Florida, Virginia, Maryland, Michigan, England, and Israel. Then, a facebook page was created to encourage facebook users to post and become friends of the Novogrodski Reunion. And www.geni.com got some action from the family as members posted their names on a growing family tree to allow us to learn on which branch from which we came. 
 
Plane arrangements, recipe exchanges, hotel reservations, and car rentals were all part of the planning process until the day finally arrived to travel to the Catskills in upstate New York for the big gathering. 
 
 
The party took place on a farm of 165 acres of land which proved to be the perfect venue for many excited family members who hadn’t seen one another in a very long time. 
 
 
Needless to say the 75 committed people began arriving and the anticipation continued to develop until we all gathered for a fun filled weekend on the farm where we enjoyed hay rides, a soft ball game, and lots and lots of food all prepared by the hosting family. 
 
The weekend was filled with lasting memories but the one that stands out the most, I describe here: My grandmother used to make the most awesome cookies, rugelah, which became known as one of the staples for Thanksgiving and the Jewish holidays. These cookies are particularly labor intensive and always a hit especially with a gentle dusting of confectioners’ sugar. 
 
So, I had this idea prior to the reunion, that I would bake many dozens of “Grandma Rosie’s Cookies” thinking, “What is a family gathering without them????”   For days, my kitchen turned into a bakery as I churned out dozens and dozens of rugelah for the family to enjoy. 
 

And enjoy they did! 

Everyone took pleasure in the taste of a memory that only Grandma Rosie’s cookies could provide. 
The sounds of “hmmmmmm” and “yummmmmm” and “ohhhhhhhh” and “wowwwwwww” warmed my heart and soul to provide a little of the past to the Grandma’s descendents.   
 
So that everyone could continue to enjoy the taste of days gone by, I provided the recipe with Grandma Rosie’s photo which I include here. 
 
 
 
Grandma Rosie’s Cookies


  

1 cup unsalted butter                           
1 8 oz. package cream cheese
1/2 cup plus 2 T sugar, divided
1/2 t vanilla
1/4 t salt
2 cups flour
3/4 cups chopped walnuts (opt)
1/2 cup raisins or currants
2 T cinnamon
XXX sugar
 
Beat butter and cream cheese until light and fluffy. Beat in 2 T sugar, vanilla, and salt. At low speed, mix in flour. On floured surface knead dough until smooth. Divide into 3rds. Shape each piece into a 5” circle, 3/4” thick. Wrap in plastic wrap.  Refrigerate 1 hour or overnight. Combine 1/2 cup sugar, (walnuts) raisins, & cinnamon in a bowl. On floured surface with floured rolling pin, roll 1 piece dough into circle. Spread top with 1/3 of sugar mixture. Cut circle into 12 wedges. Roll from long side to the point. Shape into crescent. Bake in lower third of oven 40-45 minutes at 325. Let cool and sprinkle with XXX sugar.
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Generations of Friends

Sunday, April 18th, 2010

We recently hosted two 18 year old young men from the United States for 9 days. With one of them we have a 3 generation friendship! My parents were good friends with his grandparents, his uncle was on of my best friends growing up, and his Mom was in my sisters class….you get it, our families go Way Back!

How fun is that to have the opportunity to meet the next generation. I could tell by the emails I received from his mom and uncle how relieved they were that he would be staying with me in this far away country. I was so excited to meet him and his friend. Their visit sparked my own journey down memory lane of childhood friendships.

Both of the boys have been trying to decide where they will go study next year, and they had this time while abroad to think about it. During the time spent at our house I heard them talking about one University and by the end of the week they had decided on another one!

Third Generation Friends

Third Generation Friends

I could not help but think about the new Friendships they would be making at University – wow new beginnings.

One of the most exciting things of going off to Collage/University are the endless possibilities that are in front of you.

It is the best time to burst out of one’s shell or place. Most likely you have been in the same school for at least 4 years if not more. People around you kind of decide who you are and keep you in that place, whether you have grown out of it or not. We often seem to live up to or down to the expectations around us.

Going off to a new place is an opportunity to start a new beginning. You can be whom ever you want, wow now that is exciting! No preconceptions of who you are. That is one of the reasons why I LOVE new beginnings. They can be hard, but they offer us endless opportunities in personal growth.

Many friendships that are made during the first weeks or first year of University will last a life time.

You start to learn that you can have all kinds of friends, each one for a different reason, a different place or to do different things with. You learn how to juggle your high school friends and make room for the new friends that are coming into your life.

Having these young men spend time with us reminded me how much I still appreciate my high school friends from Georgia and can’t wait to get together with them all this summer, as I head back to my home town to reconnect with all the friends and people that helped shape the person I am today.

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