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Family Reunions

Friday, July 9th, 2010

 

Here is our first Guest Blog ! 

This is what Lauren Steinman Watral has to say about herself

First and foremost I am a wife and mother of 3 girls. Professionally, I created and developed a geriatric care management business to pursue my dream of a private practice. I am owner and founder of Raleigh Geriatric Care Management, LLC established in January of '09.
 
Four months ago I received an unsuspecting email from a long lost cousin who had attended the funeral of my uncle in Yonkers, NY. While there, he expressed to attendees that perhaps it was time for a family reunion.
 
After all, our family had never had one.   

The theme, he pondered, would be to celebrate the 100th anniversary of the Novogrodski family arriving in the United States. 

 

Thus, a birth of a reunion.  

 
Emails started flying around the country and the world to include California, Washington, New York , North Carolina, Florida, Virginia, Maryland, Michigan, England, and Israel. Then, a facebook page was created to encourage facebook users to post and become friends of the Novogrodski Reunion. And www.geni.com got some action from the family as members posted their names on a growing family tree to allow us to learn on which branch from which we came. 
 
Plane arrangements, recipe exchanges, hotel reservations, and car rentals were all part of the planning process until the day finally arrived to travel to the Catskills in upstate New York for the big gathering. 
 
 
The party took place on a farm of 165 acres of land which proved to be the perfect venue for many excited family members who hadn’t seen one another in a very long time. 
 
 
Needless to say the 75 committed people began arriving and the anticipation continued to develop until we all gathered for a fun filled weekend on the farm where we enjoyed hay rides, a soft ball game, and lots and lots of food all prepared by the hosting family. 
 
The weekend was filled with lasting memories but the one that stands out the most, I describe here: My grandmother used to make the most awesome cookies, rugelah, which became known as one of the staples for Thanksgiving and the Jewish holidays. These cookies are particularly labor intensive and always a hit especially with a gentle dusting of confectioners’ sugar. 
 
So, I had this idea prior to the reunion, that I would bake many dozens of “Grandma Rosie’s Cookies” thinking, “What is a family gathering without them????”   For days, my kitchen turned into a bakery as I churned out dozens and dozens of rugelah for the family to enjoy. 
 

And enjoy they did! 

Everyone took pleasure in the taste of a memory that only Grandma Rosie’s cookies could provide. 
The sounds of “hmmmmmm” and “yummmmmm” and “ohhhhhhhh” and “wowwwwwww” warmed my heart and soul to provide a little of the past to the Grandma’s descendents.   
 
So that everyone could continue to enjoy the taste of days gone by, I provided the recipe with Grandma Rosie’s photo which I include here. 
 
 
 
Grandma Rosie’s Cookies


  

1 cup unsalted butter                           
1 8 oz. package cream cheese
1/2 cup plus 2 T sugar, divided
1/2 t vanilla
1/4 t salt
2 cups flour
3/4 cups chopped walnuts (opt)
1/2 cup raisins or currants
2 T cinnamon
XXX sugar
 
Beat butter and cream cheese until light and fluffy. Beat in 2 T sugar, vanilla, and salt. At low speed, mix in flour. On floured surface knead dough until smooth. Divide into 3rds. Shape each piece into a 5” circle, 3/4” thick. Wrap in plastic wrap.  Refrigerate 1 hour or overnight. Combine 1/2 cup sugar, (walnuts) raisins, & cinnamon in a bowl. On floured surface with floured rolling pin, roll 1 piece dough into circle. Spread top with 1/3 of sugar mixture. Cut circle into 12 wedges. Roll from long side to the point. Shape into crescent. Bake in lower third of oven 40-45 minutes at 325. Let cool and sprinkle with XXX sugar.
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Friendship, Travel and Summer Fun Blog Fest

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

Summer is Here! 

We have been talking about Friendships, reunions and reconnecting with friends this summer so as you know we decided to have a Summer Blog Fest.   We have invited some of our favorite bloggers and friends to participate by blogging for us.  

We have a great line up!  

We asked our guest bloggers to write about Friendship, Travels and Summer fun.  We have blogs planned about family reunions, traveling with children, meeting new people and making friends, girlfriend trips, running a business while on vacation, meeting with Virtual Friends for the first time, high school reunions and more.  Believe me I can not wait to read the blogs! 

I would like to take this opportunity to thank our Guest Bloggers for taking the time (which in the summer is hard to find) and sharing with us their experiences, thoughts, advise and wisdom! 

Thank you!

 

Now I have started my summer with a mini reunion ! 

 

Summer Reunions, Families and Friends , WOW what a blast!
 
I am embarking on both kinds of reunions this summer, one thanks to Facebook and the other thanks to my in laws turning 80 and 85!
 
 
 
 
I want to talk about school reunions however here.
 
Class of '77
 
I just had lunch with a friend after he attended a reunion of his elementary school and we talked about what they did, and what they talked about. 

 
Some interesting things came up.
 
First of all, when one sees someone after 30-40 years for the first time….
  • What do you talk about? 
  • What do you do? 
  • What are the thoughts running through your head

This is what he told me

  1. 1. He said no one brought spouses, as it was obvious to everyone that spouses just did not belong at that kind of a happening, it would not “speak to them.” It freed everyone up to focus on the people there and not spend the entire evening on “small talk”.
  2. Many people brought photos from their time together, which was a lot of fun seeing “the way we were”.
  3. They actually had a moderator come to help initiate interesting discussions.
  4. They had different activities to help everyone really talk to each other.
 
When he was talking about it afterwards with his son, they talked about how he “saw” people when we were younger, and how he saw them today.
My friend felt like he was an outsider. He was dyslectic, and was therefore not a great student. he never felt he fit in. No matter what realm of measurement in today’s world, you would call him a success. No one would have expected that of him then, based on grades or social skills at the time.
 
We use to label people.
There were the “popular kids” verses the “losers”, "the jokesters", "the nerds", "the Good girls" and "the Bad girls"… etc..
 

What became of us?

  • Did we fulfill our potential? 
  • Could anyone have known in grade school or high school what our potential would be? 
  • Did we go out into the world to prove them wrong or to prove them right?

What is success and how do you measure it? A lot of interesting questions. Are they happy in their life today?

  • Did the “smart” kids succeed more than the “losers”?
  • Did they build something in their life time? 
  • Did they contribute to the community they live in?
 
I’d love to hear from you what you think a successful life means.
 
Thanks for the discussion….
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