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Friends Family and My Hometown

Monday, August 9th, 2010

Guest Blog : Shari – The Friendship Stone Team - Now in Canada!

Every summer, usually for the best part of August I pack my bags and together with my daughter we travel to Ontario Canada for a visit with family and friends.

I have been living in Israel for 28 years, but come summer time I become a Canadian again!

This trip however I knew ahead of time that it was going to be different.  My mom who is getting older (and wiser) has not been well so we are basically staying with her and not traveling as much as as we usually do.   Mom lives in an assisted living complex, the average age being 80 – all of the sudden I feel really young!

I have been cooking – cleaning – doing laundry etc…oh yes this is a working vacation!

We also have played bingo – watched movies with the girls (again 80 and over) and gone on short but nice walks.  Spending time with mom is good.

Don't look at my cards!

Don't Look at my Cards

 

Mom is the serious Bingo Player

 

I want spend time with my close friends.  So I called my "girls" and explained to them the situation. Of course they said no problem we will come to you.  Mom goes to Dialysis 3 times a week for 5 hours so we are available to do stuff during those time slots. 

Last Saturday my Girl Jackie and hubby surprised me with a visit on the way to visiting her father in law in another city.

Sunday my oldest and closest friend Debbie came in from Toronto with her hubby and took us sailing for the morning on her father's boat – then picked up mom and went for lunch together,  Debbie and I  have been friends since the day we were born – we are second generation friends, our Mothers' were Best Friends too.

What an amazing gift friendship is. 

My oldest closest friend and My Princess 

Friday, my Girl Eve came in with her daughter and we spent the day at the African Lion Safari.

We were 4 little girls having fun! 

The girls played together and got along amazing.  I even had a ride on an Elephant!  I love the elephants – except I think that their eyes look sad all the time.

 MJ asked if I had a Friendship Stone in my bag, (of course I did) she asked if she could give it to her friend! I thought that was a wonderful idea – so the two of us gave Mom and Daughter a unique gift to remember this day of Friendship and fun.

Second Generation of Friends

Lions and tigers and bears oh elephants!

That was fun! her name is Lilly

Now we all know that Facebook is great for connecting friends right?  

A couple of months ago I found a high school friend on Facebook(she was only in school with me for a short while but made an impact on my life) .  Claudia had come from Chile and had traveled to places that I had only dreamed about! 

She is beautiful!

 

Well last week I noticed that she was on Facebook…Said hello and told her I was in Canada visiting my mom.  She told me that she would be at her father's close to my mom's place – so we planned to meet. 

It has been almost 29 years since the last time I saw Claudia but when she opened the car door…. she looked as beautiful as she did when I last saw her!

Claudia was being silly and we loved it! 

We spent a great afternoon together (she brought her 6 year old princess)  - The two of us walked the paths down the Hamilton Waterfront , caught up with each others adventures in life as the girls scooted in front, and 

 

MJ and I gave them Friendship Stones to remember the day – Claudia received a Traveling Friendship Stone – she is a traveller – it will be fun to watch her stone travel the world. 

Ice Cream is an international language for kids! 

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Weddings – a reunion of friends!

Monday, July 26th, 2010

 

Guest Blog: Shari from The Friendship Stone Team

Oh how wonderful it is to go to a wedding. 

I love it.
 
I promise myself each time I go to a wedding that I will not cry!
That is a good joke! I cry!
 
And last night was no exception – the groom, I have watched for the last 14 years grow from a boy into a man.  And now he is has chosen to turn his best friend into his wife – his partner for life!
How beautiful is that.
 
I promised the grooms parents that I would prepare a video clip of the wedding ceremony – but looking this morning at the footage I have – it is going to be difficult!
 
Can you tell that I was crying and had to wipe the tears away at the wrong time – I missed the Groom breaking the glass!

 
 
So what did we have at this wedding? A beautiful gathering of friends and family. 
 
 
The Ceremony was traditional Jewish Orthodox. I love how the Hupah (Canopy) is set up higher than the guests so everyone could see the young couple's expressions during the ceremony.
The friends of the bride and groom danced them to the hupa as they were accompanied by their parents – first the groom and then the bride.
 
The ceremony itself was beautifully done allowing for family and honored guests to participate.
Oh how young and beautiful they looked under the canopy!
 
So Young so Beautiful
 
Then the party began! The dancing – the singing – the eating!
 
I must call my girlfriend later today and thank her for seating my family and me at a great table. 
I sat with friends that I once worked with (a few years back) and enjoyed every minute of our reunion during the many courses of the dinner!
 
Catching up with one and other –we went around the table and telling us one by one what they are up to, how their children are (two have grand children already), how work is, etc.  It was great to hear all of the stories – two friends went back to school part time (master's degrees) two had grandchildren already – one just downsized into a smaller home…. I told them what I do and of course told them that they would be subjects of my blog this morning!
 
Once we were caught up – the conversation flowed – we laughed and laughed just like old times.
This reminded me of a great quote that I recently read: 
 
“Good friends are like stars…. You don't always see them, but you know they are always there”
 
The rest of the evening flew by – and finally my 6 year old said  " Mama – Daddy wants to go home, he's tired!"
 
So before slipping out of the party – I gave a Friendship Stone to two friends that I reconnected with. I placed the stone in their hands and just whispered in their ear –
 
"Thank you for being my friend, I am here for you always"

I got the best hugs!
 
 
 
 
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