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Thanksgiving and Giving Thanks with Friends

Monday, November 30th, 2009

Wow, I just love that word!  It is so good to Give Thanks, especially as most of us are running thru life with out taking the time to stop and think about what we are grateful for.  I have learned to try to do it on a daily basis, but I see that many friends around me forget to take the time to appreciate all the goodness in their life.  What’s GREAT about this specific Giving Thanks holiday, is it is also accompanied by amazing food, that we over here in Israel, really only eat once a year.

I have a group of Ex Pat friends that started to make it a tradition to have Thanksgiving together each year.  I love it because most of us are so busy that we do not have the opportunity to see each other during the year.  We have met new friends thru this dinner, friends of Friends.  And it is a “small world” dinner as well.  Aviva and  I went on an overseas student program at Hebrew University in 1978-9.  Now that is 30 years ago!

Her husband Hezi is on the board of “Yeladim”,  is a voluntary organization, founded in 1986, in order to assist children in residential group homes.  She introduced me to Rach, who has become a good friend for the past 20 years.

She brought another friend of hers, that turns out is Phyllis Glazer, , the renowned food writer for The Jerusalem Post.  Phyllis and I have worked together many times in the past, she as the writer and I as a photographer when I was working as a Food photographer!

And they added their good friends, Denise and Avi, who founded the Make a Wish Foundation here in Israel. My kind of people that have dedicated their lives to giving!  And lastly, one of our best friends, Yadin, (his wife is in the States this week) one of the Founders of Tmura, an organization that supports educational initiatives and youth opportunities, among other charitable activities in Israel, by sharing in the wealth being created by the country’s technology sector. 
A Group of Givers!

After you add in everyone’s kids and boyfriends, girlfriends, we were 32 in total.  I am so excited to host everyone this year at our house.  The kids and I have been setting the table for the past two days, now it’s time to make the food.

It is a big potluck, so I get to do the things I love to make.  I will share with you my world famous Panacota Recipe, (not joking here) that I learned how to do on a cooking course I went to with my sister Jill and some friends in Italy many years ago.  It is actually much better than the original, because I have perfected it-  I know I am modest,  but this really is the all time BEST!):

What a great tradition!  Thanksgiving and don’t forget to GIVE thanks!

(I will add the recipe later in the day)

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Holidays and Healthy Wishes

Thursday, November 26th, 2009

Now that the Holidays are right around the corner, we want to stay connected to our loved ones, especially if they are facing medical challenges. What are the best ways to do that?

  1. Stay in contact on a regular basis.   I think email is best particularly if they are in a serious situation, they might not have the energy to talk on the phone, and repeat the same story over and over again.   Even if they never answer you back, keep the contact coming.  Believe me, it is something that always gives some one a pick me up, knowing that someone is thinking of them.
  2. Let them know that it is Ok not to respond, NO accounting!  You are there for them at the moment and you just want them to know that you are thinking of them and they’re for them, to help when possible.
  3. If you live close by, think of ways you might be able to volunteer your help, car pooling, grocery shopping, helping kids with homework.  Most people never want to actually ask for help, but if you can offer specifics on how you would love to do something, it might be easier for them to accept.
  4. Tell your friend or loved one that you want to be a good friend, and in order to do that, they need to let you help them.  They are actually doing it for you, so that you can feel good that you made a difference in their life with deeds and not just words.
  5. If your friend or laved one lives far away, ask for a person that is close by that you can stay in touch with to keep updated on their situation.  Being connected helps you feel apart of what they are going thru and helps them feel better that you care so much to want to stay in the picture.
  6. Send healing thoughts to your friends, the power of thought is not to be underestimated!    

    “I find, by experience, that the mind and the body are more than married, for they are most intimately united; and when one suffers, the other sympathizes.”  The Earl of Chesterfield

7. The power of denial is not to be underestimated either!  What do I mean by denial?  If your thoughts are not going to help in any way, then stop thinking them! For instance, I have had several surgeries, and I could have sat around and worried about how much it would hurt, would everything turn out ok etc.  But I knew that kind of thinking was not going to help me one bit, so I DECIDED to completely not think about the surgery at all, and to focus on the present.  When I woke up from the surgery, I would have more than enough time to think about how to deal with the pain.  Now, this is not an easy thing to do, but if you work on it, you can accomplish it too.  When you become aware that you are not living in the present, bring your self back and stay there.  It takes practice, but it is well worth it,  you will be living in the present and make sure you make the most of those moments.

May the Holy One, blessed be God, be merciful and strengthen and heal him/her. Grant him/her a complete and speedy recovery—healing of body and healing of soul. And let us say: Amen.

I am praying for all of my loved ones that are dealing with the fight of their life, visualizing them healthy and pray for their speedy recovery.

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